My new boy under consideration

This past Saturday, I had a date with a cute boy from nearby, who is interested in power-exchange relationships. We met at the train station and explored a neighborhood of Boston for about an hour before we went to eat. We then had a nice lunch and bonded over the food. After that, we went to a coffee shop where we sat for a while and talked about what a power-exchange relationship between us would be like, including my expectations of behavior. We immediately started with some basic things, such as him addressing me as "Sir," sitting with his hands on his lap and eyes downward, and occasionally holding hands.

After the coffee shop, I took him to a nearby sex shop, where he showed me some toys he liked: nipple clamps, two butt toys, and a Gates of Hell. All of those seem nice to me. Then, I went to the front desk, got some collars, and took the boy into the dressing room to try them on. I had him take off his shirt and face the mirror, while I put them on him, one after the other. As I did, I would also caress his body and play with his nipples. When I put the last one on him, I had him get on his knees, where I kissed him and did other stuff (within the constraints of the situation, obviously). From there, we did some more walking, and I got to show him some more of that area of Boston. Finally, I took him back to the train station, where we sat and cuddled while waiting for his train to come. During that evening, we had agreed that he was going to be "under consideration", so I was very much looking forward to beginning the process.

Yesterday, I sent him a list of instructions to get him started in his role as my boy, which I will repost here:

Boy, here are your initial instructions for transitioning into this new role, many of which will turn out useful for you regardless of what happens with us. They are as follows:

1. Please make a list of the times each day of the week when you'd most likely be available to talk on the phone or chat online. This is so that I can arrange for us to have at least some length of time to talk with each other's undivided attention.
   
2. If you do not already have one, choose a kinky screen name. Your current one is all right, but it is linked to your particular physical location, which means it would be confusing if you were to move. Thus, you need one that can be carried anywhere. For example, mine ("HeartExalted") will be applicable no matter where I am living. I can use it for the rest of my life. :-) Come up with some ideas, and we will go through them together. When we have chosen one for you, I will show you how you will use it.
3. You are to start moving towards having a completely smooth body. You can start out with just underarms and pubic hair, for now (and butt, if necessary)--with the understanding that you will transition to the entire body as soon as is feasible.
4. I have created and shared with you a file on Google Documents ("boy [name]'s daily log"). Each day, you are to go to the top of the document and post what you need to accomplish for the day (and can reasonably be expected to do) and what you have accomplished. You do the first one at the start of your day and the second at the end of your day. This is so that I can keep you on track.
5. Make a list of things that would be effective punishments for you -- that you would NOT enjoy but would not harm you physically or psychologically, either. I don't foresee having to punish you very much, if at all, but I want to be prepared nonetheless.
6. You should address me as Sir when answering a question, saying "thank you" or "you're welcome", or asking for anything. For now, it will only be necessary on those occasions, though I may add to that list later. When we are alone, online, or on the phone, you should always follow this rule. You should also do so when we are around other kinky people. When we are in public or around non-kinky people, you should either leave it off entirely or do so in a way that's imperceptible to others.
   
7. In addition, you should always use lower-case letters when referring to yourself--such as "i" or "[boy's name]". This is to make you more aware of our respective positions
8. When we are seated together, you should sit up straight with your hands in your lap and eyes downward. (However, when we are talking, you may occasionally make eye contact with me.) When we are walking together, you should look straight forward and slightly down, with arms at your sides...unless I am holding one of your hands! :-) If I stop for whatever reason, you are to assume position indicated in this photo: http://www.frugaldomme.com/esoteric/poses/1030009.jpg If you kneel before me, you are also to use that position unless I indicate otherwise.
   
9. When meeting with me, you should be well cleaned, groomed, and otherwise presentable. You should be freshly showered and your balls, butt, etc. should be lickably clean! ;-) You should also dress fairly preppy, like for church or an interview or something. (Obviously, one or both of us may be fairly overworked or stressed, so allowances will be made.)

These are just some things that will start us off, to get you into the mindset of being submissive to another man and just to start molding you in some subtle but meaningful ways. If any of these should be a problem on any level, you are to bring that to my attention. I look forward to working with you on these boy!

Best,
Braden

My ideal in writing up these instructions were to come up with things that would make me feel in control and him feel controlled, without those things being an unreasonable burden on him. In addition, these are all negotiable, and he has been explicitly instructed to tell me when anything I demand might be burdensome. I am hoping that we will be able to move even further still, in the future, once we have gotten to know each other better and gotten used to each other a lot more. Finally, I have also given him the most important instruction of all:

Though you are a subservient boy and occasional potential dog, you continue to be a dynamic and complex human being. Therefore, you are to also provide me with engaging conversation, fun and occasionally silly times, and ongoing personal and intellectual challenges.

All in all, I am really enjoying getting to know this wonderful boy and working with him. I look forward to seeing him again and engaging in some more serious play and negotiations. That, and just kissing, cuddling, and having fun! ;-)